Consent is Not Enough | Sober and Unashamed

“We can.” That’s the response I received for years when I asked my wife, Sheri, if she to have sex. As an active alcoholic, that consent was good enough for me. I didn’t know it, but I was looking to sex for the same dopamine hit I got from alcohol. A reluctant, “We can,” was enough.

When the question is, “Do you want to…?” and the response is, “We can,”…

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I live in Denver, Colorado, with my wife and four kids. I write and speak about addiction and recovery. Please follow my blog at SoberAndUnashamed.com.

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