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Do you have a drinking problem?
The questions below will help you determine the status of your relationship with alcohol:
Do you ever have thoughts like these?
I think I drink like everyone else, but is this really normal drinking?
Once I start drinking, I don’t want to stop. Or I can’t stop.
I deserve to let loose on the weekends.
My spouse claims to be in control of the alcohol, but I don’t know. Am I married to an alcoholic?
I just want a glass of wine or two. Why do I finish the bottle most nights?
I work hard, pay my bills and take care of my kids. Why am I drowning in shame?
My marriage is a wreck. I drink to relax and ease the stress, but things seem to keep getting worse.
Alcoholics sleep in the gutter and beat their wives. I can’t help but feel like something’s not quite right, but I can’t be an alcoholic.
My name is Matt Salis, and I’m a high-functioning alcoholic in permanent sobriety.
I’ve had all of these thoughts and many, many more while debating my alcoholic status. The mental gymnastics were all consuming and…